Oh really quick
We had an interesting day today…Well morning. We went to the school for Jades parade and party. Everything was going great at the party until Jade got mad at me becuase Sean and I were discussing something and I asked him to wait a second.
He got home from school and I was really excited because I was going to take him to the mall. He forgot his jacket (the ONLY one we have left since he leaves everything at his moms) so I told him he needed to go back to school to get it. (we literaly live across the street) He through a huge fit and left. It finally took Sean telling him to go and get it, since we ignores me. While he was gone, his mom called got in a huge fight with Sean, it was great….Errr… Jade got back from getting his jacket took off his costume, I asked him to put it on and he didn’t want to go to the mall. He wanted to stay home with Sean, ALONE. So, I calmly told him that Daddy, me, him and Vincent were a family and we needed to be inclusive and spend time as a family. He didn’t care. His mom showed up 2 hours early and took him. Sean was in a really bad mood, so Lacey, Sterling, Vincent and I went to the mall.
Since my last post, I have tried really hard at not getting frusterated and not taking everything so personal that comes out of his mouth or attitude. But, it is mostly down right rude and uncalled for. I talked to Sean tonight about it and he said that he is impressed with how I handle it and to know that Jades actions are coming from his mom. He hates the fact that I am here and she isn’t.
So, I am all alone this weekend and I decided that I am going to come up with:
1. A schedule. This will help Jade and I with keeping on track. It will be clear and leave no surprises.
2. Rules and Responsibilities.
Both 1 & 2 I will come up with and on Sunday night we will sit down as a family and discuss what is written down. We will make changes accordingly and all sign it. It really sucks that we need to do this, but if Sean leaves, we need a routin now, that we will be able to stick with later.
